In today’s writing prompt, I am at a loss for what to write about. Honestly, I never really been in situations wear I would have to dress up formally. I’ve always seen obessions with looks as a fools errand. Yet, so much of what we deem as “success” comes from others’ ideas of first impressions.Granted my parents would always comment on how I needed to look presentable. But the question I would ask myself is” for whom?” Even as a child
I suppose the closest I can think of in recent memory was when I was doing my reservist training.
I had shown up to training with a full goatee and unkempt afro.This was the look I had been accustomed to since my highschool days. Unfortunately, in an institution where conformity is necessary for mission success, I stood out like a sore thumb. Afterwards, I would ensure that abolutions were completed properly before each training day.
One thing I learned is that grooming to make an impression on others always bothered me. I know how to be clean and look somewhat presentable, but to take time to look good is tedious. But as I’m am still early in my tech career, I have come to, begrudginly, accept this aspect of work culture. I only have to do these rituals for a few years while building my skillset and becoming a freelancer.
That day should come sooner than later.